Showing posts with label dating. Show all posts
Showing posts with label dating. Show all posts

meat man aka clown ( gone crazy)

ok so i met this guy named chance a couple of weeks back on my first initial summer trip to ny... it was a quick encounter nothing to serious but i was a little intrigued because he was persistent so i said why not... so let me tell you all how the meeting went down... it was around 8 oclock in the morning i went to a meat market typle place with my mom because we wanted to get there early before people started waking up and it gets crowded cause shit gets packed early in the hood...especially when you in brooklyn (anyone familiar with pitken ave...yeah my point exactly) so we get there and my mom is on one side of the store and i am on the other..she sent me to the opposite side to order two whole chickens and to have one cut up for frying and the other cut for currying... so me being the me that i am i ordered the chicken and then i was in my own world until meat man aka chance was done cutting it for me.. i wont lie he is a little cutie and all but that wasnt the first thing i noticed about him..actually to be honest i did not even notice him until he kept coming at me a couple of times..anywho so he was done cutting the chicken and attempted to hand it to me i asked him to double bag the chicken and put it in a second cleaner bag but with clean gloves because i dont want chicken left overs and juices all on my hands or clothing...he laughed... i didnt see the joke but i really wasnt looking for it either... lol.. anyway so to make a long story short he slips his number in the second bag of my chicken.. i was in my own world so i didnt notice it.. he gave me his number again but this time on the counter.. i still didnt notice it.. i guess he eventually got frustrated and was like here this is for you its my number blah blah blah... i had his number for a week before i called him and we went out last thursday and then on sat we hung out a bit... while i was leaving his place on sat he tells me to call him as soon as i get a chance later on that night... i was honest with homeboy i told him i wouldnt be able to because i was going to be busy but that i will call him the next day but if not i will def hit up the day after that... i guess he thought i was joking ( i always tell people to take me seriously) anywho so like i said in previous post i been having me neices but to be nice i text him on tuesday. in my little short text i said "hey, whats up?" and do you know what i got back in reply. first text: "you funny!"... second text: "but its ok!" and third text: "i must not been all you thought i was cuz you sure enuff made seems that way 1"... ok so people i sent one simple ass text to get three angry ones back in return... damn i must have done something to this man... honestly i dont know what is but i really dont care so i didnt even ask him what was the problem... i just quickly deleted his number and kept it moving.... NEXT... dudes be wilding if they think im going to be chasing... i never do the chasing hun.

*sidebar: i told my homegirl a couple of days before he and i went out that i thought he (chance) was a psycho... i guess i was right.. and trust i had a reason for saying that cause certain things he said was off the wall*
oh yeah and the best part yesterday he writes me on facebook like nothing is wrong... everything is all good.. trying to have big big conversations... ahhhh that will be a negative little buddy.. your a FUCKING CLOWN...lol

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dating in the city


so i have been here in new york for a week now (or is it two?) idk i am bad with keep up with time and dates but anyway since being here the dating scene has def been hot...the men have been pleasing to the eyes & very creative with their delivery in trying to talk to me. the pick up lines you hear in new york i promise you, you will not hear anywhere else in the world...i mean its crazy and borderline entertaining. so my first date was two days after i came into the city.. it was with this guy who i have known for about two years now...he literally like loves me to death but im not that attracted to him...but he is such a sweetheart its hard to say no or otherwise "play" him anyway we met up in harlem, went to get something to eat and then went to the movies....it was a fun night..and i wont lie it feels good to be wanted but whatever..we seen the hangover...that was my second time seeing it but since he hadnt seen it i didnt mind seeing it twice although he assured me he would watch and do whatever i wanted to watch and do..but it was a funny movie so i can sit through it twice... my second date was about three days after that and that went good as well...we met up in the city ( i dont let anyone know where i live or stay at) and we sat down and ate at this nice restaurant place near 42nd...we sat and talked...found out more about each other..it was nice and peaceful and a very intimate restaurant and evening. i dont know if i will be seeing him again just because he is not too much my type... i feel bad saying this but he has been calling me and i havent bothered to call him back..not really feeling him but we will see.

now since i been here besides going out on dates i have met a couple of very good looking and nice men... yall i even bagged me a cop...whoooo he is fine...anyway so i have collected a couple of number (17 to be exact..lol) and i have set up a couple of more dates...hey im not too sure about j and i and our future...we havent really spoken since i been here so why not explore and see what else is out there...i refuse to sit and wait for a man to get on board...he needs to get with the program and asap before someone takes his spot..cause at the looks of things it just might happen.... or it might not cause actually im liking this semi-single/single lifestyle...im free to do what i want and not feel guilty...i love it...all i know is that out of all these guys i have met i def want to see the cop again...i mean he was so damn choclate and fine...imagine someone wit nice dark skin, a beautiful smile, soft baby brown eyes, a body like whoaa and he just had a baby face.. he is just cute...plus he is a cop...need i say anymore...HANDCUFFS hello...

ohhhh and i havent even told you about the 50 year old something man that tried to talk to me.. trying to claim he 43 my mom is 42 and this man looks way older than her...he tried to get in with my jamaican accent talking about "ay my girl yu deh from jamaica oh so am i...mi come from a yard inna trenchtown" umm first off idc where you from you not talking to me with three of your front teeth on the bottom row missing right in the front...i dont think so...lol..he was a mess...then he got the nerves to quote me the bible...he gonna quote the book of david talking about when david got sick and none of his wives could keep him warm they had to go and get a younger girl to sleep with him because she was the only one that could keep him warm and bring him back from sickness.... and this is relevant to me how?!?! you damn pervert...anyway thats it for now...i will be writing more soon...later my lovely bloggers.

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sorry i been m.i.a....updates

hello my lovely blogging world.. i am so sorry i been m.i.a but i have been extremely busy. so new york has been doing nothing but raining... but i must say the past two days has been nice and hot like 78 degrees so that def put a big smile on my face *say cheese* anywho the weather couldnt have changed at a better time because i was literally packing my bags ready to fly my ass right back down to atlanta where the weather is nice and hot the way i like it. new york has definitely gotten more expensive and it always hectic...i guess some things never change. i can literally count on both hands the amount of times i have eaten since i been here (which has been a week, and only 8 meals) sucks right... i was telling a friend of mine (sunshine, from weave in applebees) and she mad fun of me... "poor child losing weight and even trying to" is what she said... lol she always puts a smile on my face without even trying to... my friend jenn finally had her baby girl. literally three days after i left... mind you all this time i was holding off my trip so i can be there... i didnt mean to laugh but when she was in the hospital she called me right before she recieved her eppy so that i could know what was going on... it sounded something like this...


jenn: asia *screams* im at the hospital *screams louder* she on her way ttyl *louder screams* then the dial  tone
yall i was rolling on the floor...i literally didnt even get one word in. but i wish i could have been there with her.

                                                                     
                                                                 
other news: jess called me friday night telling me how mellow yellow got the ill beat down by her bf queens ( i call him that cause he from queens, ny) so this is how it went down
the night before they had been argueing so they were upset at one another..but as always no one really paid attention to them because these fools break up every week so that they can have bomb ass make up sex...to me its pure foolishness just throw that shit on him real good everytime...but thats just my thoughts * i shall continue*  anywho so he calls her the next day talking about his battery died and his car wont start so can she come help him jump his car. so her being the "good girlfriend" she is she went...she gets there my dude walks up to her car reaches inside that bitch and start choking her...while he choking her he still holding her by her neck drags her out of her car through her car window...* ummm first off there is no way in hell someone going to grab my neck and drag me through my car window by my neck* anywho so he chokes her out of her car and then goes onto to slap her up and beat her down.. he then leaves her in the parking lot of his apartment complex and takes her car...she had to call the cops to get her car back... shirt was torn off all she had was her bra covering her... all i could do was smh through the phone... thinking about it now aint this a little reminiscent of chris brown and rihanna with the whole brawl in a car thing....

anyway its getting a little late i still have to update yall on more but that will be a little later since i have no internet connection at my grandmothers house...

i have been dating alot since i have been here. three dates in seven days got to tell yall about that...but until next time byeeeeeeee

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