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love

IF YOU CANT LOVE ME THE WAY THAT I NEED TO BE LOVED, THEN DONT LOVE ME AT ALL

taking things day by day

Although we are not blood sisters, you mean the world to me. I dont think you will ever understand how much you mean to me, I hold you close and dear to my heart. I know that right now you are having a hard time, and things seem to be falling apart, I just want you to know that God has your back. Family is important, guaranteed, but sometimes the closest family isnt blood. The way that your family is treating you right now makes me sick ands all at the same time, so I can only imagine how you feel. I wont try to understand it and I wont tell you that I understand what you are going through because I dont, all I know is that I cried foryou this morning. When you shared with me what your mother said, I broke down and cried, your pain is my pain. I could never imagine having family, let alone my own parents turn their back on me. But Ray, I want you to know that I am here. I am with you the entire way through. My family is your family, and together we will get through this rough patch. I pray that your mother, father and family will soon get over themselves and guide you during this pregnancy and everything else in life, but just in case they dont, know that you have nothing to worry about because your family goes far beyond just your immediate, we all are here for you. Despite what they may think, your future is still and forever bright, and you will not allow them to dim your shine. God has blessed you with a little blessing, and I know that he or she will grow up to be great just like their mother, because God has already paved their path. He has already made it what it is. I cant wait to see my little niece and nephew. Dont worry about what your family says, you keep your baby, and you show them that your gift is a blessing, and through all the hatred they threw your way, you still found a way to rise above it all. God never puts more on us than we can bear, he knew us before we knew ourselves, therefore this was meant to be. I'll continue to pray for you and the health of your baby everynight. I will pray for thehealth of you and J relationship. and I will continue to be the best friend and sister that I can possibly be, because just like you have been blessed with this wonderful fetus, I have been blessed with you. I love you Ray... We all do.

advice to a friend

"of course you always have to be realistic but sometimes its good to live in the right now. to live your fairy tale and pray that it becomes reality.. life's about dreams"

"you cant prevent what's meant to be. you have to take risk and just pray that he is the one"

quick thought

it may hurt sometimes but when you find that one person who is worth it all the reward will be far more greater than any bad experiences you may have. love isnt easy, just like anything worth fighting for in life isnt easy. times will be hard. sometimes you will want to give up but just imagine a life of happiness and possibilities with that one person (when you find him/her) that you were destined to be with. the person who is meant to be your best friend, partner, support system, your everything. remember, dont ever lose yourself while on the long road to your soulmate.

my two sense

ive noticed lately that my friends, acquaintances and people that i talk to on a daily basis with are breaking up with their partners, main reason being cheating. everyone is all heart broken because their spouse has been cheating and they just found out and all that good stuff.. i sympathize i really do but my thing is this: THERE ARE SIGNS... there are signs that your partner is cheating or at the very least slipping. dont sit there and lie to yourself and say you didnt see it coming. even if there wasnt any physical signs like coming home late at night.. that gut feeling we get, known to us females as "womans intuition" and you men as just a gut feeling.. IT NEVER LIES... if your man tells you something and alarms goes off in your head, something is up. if he talking to you and you cant catch anything thats coming out his mouth cause all you thinking about in the back of your mind is he is cheating, lying, etc.. then must likely you are right... but even if you werent right, say you thinking all this about your man and it turns out he isnt cheating (which is very unlikely) then you dont need to be with him anyway. why you dont need to be with him?!?! BECAUSE YOU DONT TRUST HIM! if you think your man has so little respect for you as to where he will lie and cheat then you two dont need to be together. this is my thinking we all date and enter relationships in search of our future.. our future husbands and wives, that one person that we plan on spending the rest of our lives with. so if im in a relationship with someone that i can not trust, that im always shooting 21 questions at because i want to catch him in a lie (that just might not be there), if i got to play snoopy with your ass, smell your draws, unlock all your phone, all that.. then i dont.. no I CANT be with you. all i will be doing is subjecting you and myself to that for the rest of our lives, and really how can you achieve longevity in a relationship with that shit going down every week, every other week, or once a month at best. IT WONT WORK.. IT CANT WORK... when me and my ex fiance first started dating we spoke about past relationships && for the time we was together i learned alot from him.. some things i dismissed and others i didnt, but if anything the one thing i took away from our relationships is this statement he made: AS SOON AS YOUR PARTNER START BREAKING ROUTINE YOU KNOW SOMETHING AINT RIGHT, THEY CHEATING!... && he is so right.. i mean think about it, if you two go from talking once or a couple of time everyday to once a week. something is up.. if yall go from date night every friday to every two months..something is up.. if he is usually home by nine and all of a sudden he want to walk through the door at one, two, three oclock in the morning every morning, something is definitely the fuck up.. and i dont care what anyone says if that nigga aint never had a fucking passcode on his phone the two years yall been together but all of a sudden he got one on that bitch, and it aint something that you will know incase you have to use his phone such as his birthday, your birthday, anniversary, etc.. THAT NIGGA IS FUCKING CHEATING... everything be in the phone pictures, message, emails, everything.. so if he coding it up.. you need to check that out right now.. oh and if he gets a new phone that you dont know about or you dont have the number to for some reason or the other he cheating.. there is no reason why you need two phones unless you on the streets or corporate america.. one of the two, so if you aint selling some crack or anything of the sort or you not a CEO on wall street you dont need two fucking phones.. get the fuck outta here with that. but lesson of the day number 1 way to know your partner is cheating without playing scoopy or the guessing game is

IF THEY BREAK ROUTINE...

what have you learned...

... from past relationships....

so last night ms. charis over at mizz scoop status on facebook was this:

"...tried to give you REAL love, that's when you up & run away" MY BAD, I was jammin' that Monica, she speaks the truth on that "Stay or Go"! So, I'm just curious, & I want y'all to be REAL with me, we're grown: What's the BEST advice/lesson learned from your relationships? Past, Present, whenever?

i just had to respond because.. well im keenya and thats what i do..lol.. but no really i had to respond because im feeling what she is saying. although i am a young female, i have been in relationships since i was fourteen and i dont know it all but i have experienced it all and i can definitely speak on it...

so here was my response...

"man from all of my relationships ive learned that i cant vouch for anyone but myself. i have learned that love hurts no matter what. no relationship is perfect we all have our obstacles and our ups and downs. i do believe if you truly love someone that you two will find a way to make it work. real love never dies it always come back. but ive also learned that sometimes you just have to let go. no matter how much it may hurt you have to say goodbye and let go. no one is perfect. so two imperfect people trying to be perfect is impossible. we all have flaws, how we choose to deal with those flaws is what counts.now the subject of cheating... i can personally say that love has nothing to do with whether people cheat or not. you can love someone to death and still cheat on them. iits weakness and it selfishness but we are made of flesh. some have the will power not to and others just dont. but love has nothing to do with cheating. it just doesnt. i think once everyone is grown enough to admit their mistake, flaws, wrongs and not badger their partner but instead come to an understanding of what they are and what they want relationships run alot smoother. and age is def nothing but a number, it does not determine maturity or anything else, and thats from personal experience. my ex fiance was 23 and was the most mature man i have ever dated, while i have dated men as old as 45 and they were all over the place.. THATS WHAT I HAVE LEARNED ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS (KIND OF ALL OVER THE PLACE..SORRY)"

excuses are....

excuses are.....

tools of the incompetent
cowardly
wack
for losers
for lames and liars
bullshit
stupid, dont give me any point blank simple
for pussies
made for fools
for the weak hearted
bullshyt

i asked this question today: excuses are___ .... these were some of the responses i received

my mind rest on you

EVERY NOW AND THEN MY MIND REST ON YOU.. I THINK OF TEXTING OR CALLING JUST TO SAY HEY OR TO HEAR YOUR VOICE (I PREFER HEARING YOUR VOICE) && THEN REALITY HITS ME.. I KNOW YOU WONT ANSWER, I KNOW YOU WONT RESPOND SO IT MAKES NO SENSE.. I MISS YOU... BUT IM CONTENT

so i miss him, i miss my ex. i miss his smell, his smile and especially his voice.. oww that voice i miss him and it so much. i miss the conversations we had, the silent nights, the fights, passionate days and nights, i miss it all. i miss him like crazy, i miss his touch, i miss eyes, i miss his nose and i definitely miss his mouth.. his lips.. soft pink lips.. i miss him.. i miss it all i miss the man that i once "loved" i miss him..i really thought it would last.. thought i was ready for something more serious than my past. i miss talking to him, seeing him i just miss him in general. wished it would of worked. wanted it to so bad.. but i guess everything happens for a reason. i wish him the best of luck, wish him all the happiness in the world.. only problem is.. I WISH HIS HAPPINESS WAS/ IS WITH ME... damn how can that be resolved?

Random

I am tired of being lonely. Mental abandoment is worst than physical isolation

words from a wise man

'They're standing on the corner and they can't speak English.
I can't even talk the way these people talk:
Why you ain't,
Where you is,
What he drive,
Where he stay,
Where he work,
Who you be....

And I blamed the kid until I heard the mother talk.
And then I heard the father talk.

Everybody knows it's important to speak English except these knuckleheads. You can't be a doctor with that kind of crap coming out of your mouth
In fact you will never get any kind of job making a decent living.

People marched and were hit in the face with rocks to get an Education, and now we've got these knuckleheads walking around.

The lower economic people are not holding up their end in this deal.

These people are not parenting. They are buying things for kids.

$500 sneakers for what?

And they won't spend $200 for Hooked on Phonics.

I am talking about these people who cry when their son is standing there in an orange suit.

Where were you when he was 2?

Where were you when he was 12?

Where were you when he was 18 and how come you didn't know that he had a pistol?

And where is the father? Or who is his father?

People putting their clothes on backward:
Isn't that a sign of something gone wrong?

People with their hats on backward, pants down around the crack, isn't that a sign of something?

Isn't it a sign of something when she has her dress all the way up and got all type of needles [piercing] going through her body?

What part of Africa did this come from??

We are not Africans. Those people are not Africans; they don't know a thing about Africa .....

I say this all of the time. It would be like white people saying they are European-American. That is totally stupid.

I was born here, and so were my parents and grand parents and, very likely my great grandparents. I don't have any connection to Africa, no more than white Americans have to Germany , Scotland , England ,Ireland , or the Netherlands . The same applies to 99 percent of all the black Americans as regards to Africa . So stop, already! ! !

With names like Shaniqua, Taliqua and Mohammed and all of that crap ......... and all of them are in jail.

Brown or black versus the Board of Education is no longer the white person's problem.

We have got to take the neighborhood back.

People used to be ashamed. Today a woman has eight children with eight different 'husbands' -- or men or whatever you call them now.

We have millionaire football players who cannot read.

We have million-dollar basketball players who can't write two paragraphs. We, as black folks have to do a better job.

Someone working at Wal-Mart with seven kids, you are hurting us.

We have to start holding each other to a higher standard.

We cannot blame the white people any longer.'
Dr. William Henry 'Bill' Cosby, Jr., Ed.D.

It's NOT about color...

It's about behavior!!!