what have you learned...

... from past relationships....

so last night ms. charis over at mizz scoop status on facebook was this:

"...tried to give you REAL love, that's when you up & run away" MY BAD, I was jammin' that Monica, she speaks the truth on that "Stay or Go"! So, I'm just curious, & I want y'all to be REAL with me, we're grown: What's the BEST advice/lesson learned from your relationships? Past, Present, whenever?

i just had to respond because.. well im keenya and thats what i do..lol.. but no really i had to respond because im feeling what she is saying. although i am a young female, i have been in relationships since i was fourteen and i dont know it all but i have experienced it all and i can definitely speak on it...

so here was my response...

"man from all of my relationships ive learned that i cant vouch for anyone but myself. i have learned that love hurts no matter what. no relationship is perfect we all have our obstacles and our ups and downs. i do believe if you truly love someone that you two will find a way to make it work. real love never dies it always come back. but ive also learned that sometimes you just have to let go. no matter how much it may hurt you have to say goodbye and let go. no one is perfect. so two imperfect people trying to be perfect is impossible. we all have flaws, how we choose to deal with those flaws is what counts.now the subject of cheating... i can personally say that love has nothing to do with whether people cheat or not. you can love someone to death and still cheat on them. iits weakness and it selfishness but we are made of flesh. some have the will power not to and others just dont. but love has nothing to do with cheating. it just doesnt. i think once everyone is grown enough to admit their mistake, flaws, wrongs and not badger their partner but instead come to an understanding of what they are and what they want relationships run alot smoother. and age is def nothing but a number, it does not determine maturity or anything else, and thats from personal experience. my ex fiance was 23 and was the most mature man i have ever dated, while i have dated men as old as 45 and they were all over the place.. THATS WHAT I HAVE LEARNED ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS (KIND OF ALL OVER THE PLACE..SORRY)"