Showing posts with label new york. Show all posts
Showing posts with label new york. Show all posts

topfree.. im moving back to nyc

last night stefanie was on twitter saying how she wished she lived in new york city because the people there are allowed to walk around topless. me being a born and raised new yorker told her this was untrue (because i just knew it couldnt be) plus she heard it on the tyra show.. who takes tyra seriously?!?! i know i dont. but i figured i would do my homework and research it anyway, although i have never heard of such law allowing topless nudity in new york. imagine my surprise to find out that it is true and indeed women are allowed to go topless in new york.

here are some interesting facts that i found out about topless laws:
topless laws are not very popular in the united states, in fact there are only six states that has such laws, which are: texas, new york, california (but only the coast such as santa cruz), hawaii, maine, and ohio.
cities that participate in the topfree law are: boulder, colorado; eugene, oregon; portlans, oregon; ashland oregon; oregon country fair; lucy vincent beach in chilmark on martha's vineyard; south beach, miami beach, florida; key west, florida; fantasy fest; new orleans; mardi gras; washington, d.c; and columbus, oh
although these six states allow topless freedom, there are restrictions and regulatory guidelines to be aware of. for example although topfree is legal in six states, the decision is really up to the cities and further more the counties, if they will allow such acts or not, which is very conflicting because technically its not against the law, but you run the risk of still being arrested, charged, and fined with a class b misdemeanor. in the history of topfree law there has been eleven lawsuits/ cases against states for not acknowledging these laws and arresting female participants. for instance in 2007 phoenix feeley sued nyc and won $29,000. in 1986 a woman represented herself against the district of columbia and won stating that the d.c nudity law did not apply to any body part but genitals.
in nyc 1992 ruling the courts stated this: "the people in this case have not refuted this evidence or attempt to show the existence of evidence of their own to indicate that the non-lewd exposure of the female breast is in any way harmful to the public's health or well being.... in summary, the people have offered nothing to justify a law that discriminates against women by prohibiting them from removing their tops and exposing their bare chests in public as men are routinely permitted to do. the mere fact that the stautue's aim is the protection of 'public sensibilities' is not sufficient to satisfy the state's burden of showing an 'exceedingly persuasive justification' for a classification that expressly discriminates on the bases of sex. accordingly, the gender based classification established by penal law $345.01 violates appellants' equal protection rights and, for that reason, i concur in the majority's result and vote to reverse the order below."
you can see the ny v. santorelli court of appeals here

SO WITH THAT BEING SAID... IF YOU LIVE IN NYC OR ANY OF THE ABOVE STATES && CITIES.. GO TOPLESS...
you can sign a petition here that will be presented to President Obama in August asking to push and pass the law in other states
i am all for personal freedom, and i love nudity so i signed it.. i mean why can men be allowed to walk around topless but we cant.. equality is a God given right that we arent always given..
Question:
do you think this law is ridiculous? if so why or why not
men- would you allow the women in your life (wife, girlfriend, mother, daughter) to go in public topless?
women- would you ever consider walking around public nude?

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neglect

forgive me for i have neglected my blog.. not too much just a little. i am still recovering from new years eve.. liquor just now leaving my system but i do have a couple of blogs lined up in my head because these past three- four days have been completely hectic. so here is a line up of the blogs i will be doing as soon as i get back to georgia and settle down:

1)the phone call
2)road trip to ny
3)tragedy of new years ever/ new years day
4)2nd day of january phone call
5)best friend or impostor
6)moving/ new beginnings

hope you all have a good weekend. i should be back posting by friday after i settle down into my new apartment and everything.. please please please be safe out here, i cant stress this enough there is alot of crazies in this world and it only gets worse with each passing day. God Bless

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sorry i been m.i.a....updates

hello my lovely blogging world.. i am so sorry i been m.i.a but i have been extremely busy. so new york has been doing nothing but raining... but i must say the past two days has been nice and hot like 78 degrees so that def put a big smile on my face *say cheese* anywho the weather couldnt have changed at a better time because i was literally packing my bags ready to fly my ass right back down to atlanta where the weather is nice and hot the way i like it. new york has definitely gotten more expensive and it always hectic...i guess some things never change. i can literally count on both hands the amount of times i have eaten since i been here (which has been a week, and only 8 meals) sucks right... i was telling a friend of mine (sunshine, from weave in applebees) and she mad fun of me... "poor child losing weight and even trying to" is what she said... lol she always puts a smile on my face without even trying to... my friend jenn finally had her baby girl. literally three days after i left... mind you all this time i was holding off my trip so i can be there... i didnt mean to laugh but when she was in the hospital she called me right before she recieved her eppy so that i could know what was going on... it sounded something like this...


jenn: asia *screams* im at the hospital *screams louder* she on her way ttyl *louder screams* then the dial  tone
yall i was rolling on the floor...i literally didnt even get one word in. but i wish i could have been there with her.

                                                                     
                                                                 
other news: jess called me friday night telling me how mellow yellow got the ill beat down by her bf queens ( i call him that cause he from queens, ny) so this is how it went down
the night before they had been argueing so they were upset at one another..but as always no one really paid attention to them because these fools break up every week so that they can have bomb ass make up sex...to me its pure foolishness just throw that shit on him real good everytime...but thats just my thoughts * i shall continue*  anywho so he calls her the next day talking about his battery died and his car wont start so can she come help him jump his car. so her being the "good girlfriend" she is she went...she gets there my dude walks up to her car reaches inside that bitch and start choking her...while he choking her he still holding her by her neck drags her out of her car through her car window...* ummm first off there is no way in hell someone going to grab my neck and drag me through my car window by my neck* anywho so he chokes her out of her car and then goes onto to slap her up and beat her down.. he then leaves her in the parking lot of his apartment complex and takes her car...she had to call the cops to get her car back... shirt was torn off all she had was her bra covering her... all i could do was smh through the phone... thinking about it now aint this a little reminiscent of chris brown and rihanna with the whole brawl in a car thing....

anyway its getting a little late i still have to update yall on more but that will be a little later since i have no internet connection at my grandmothers house...

i have been dating alot since i have been here. three dates in seven days got to tell yall about that...but until next time byeeeeeeee

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